Inspiring and empowering people to maximize their quality of life in spite of a chronic health condition or a disability

STEPS TO CHANGE

  Issue # 11                                                                                                                                                                               May 2005

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TRAVELS WITH TRISH

FEATURE ARTICLE Powerful Strategies for Maximizing Remission

FEEDBACK FORUM

CHUCKLES TO LIGHTEN YOUR DAY

FR~EE RESOURCES

WORDS TO CONSIDER

ABOUT TRISH

 

A chronic health condition can be a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. 

Are you ready to break free of the bindings that are holding you back from discovering your own personal level of optimal health?

 We all have one – no matter what the condition is that ails us.  

I challenge you to want to discover yours!

I take people from an overwhelmed existence to a comfortably paced lifestyle. 

Are you ready for that journey?

Contact me today for a fr~ee sample coaching session and get started on living your maximum life.

TRAVELS WITH TRISH

April was a VERY busy month for my new colleague, Marg Gaukel and I.  We facilitated Disability Sensitivity Training for the municipal staff of the Town of Georgina; training almost 140 people during 7 workshops over the course of 4 weeks.  What a wonderful experience!  The staff were open-minded and participated enthusiastically.  Marg and I feel fortunate to be able to advocate for people with disabilities, helping to see that they're accommodated as well as treated with dignity and respect.  If you know of an organization that would be interested in having this workshop facilitated for their staff or volunteers, please don't hesitate to contact me.  We'd love to spread the word far and wide! 

I hope you're enjoying the beautiful spring weather we're having.  I know I am.  Here in south-central Ontario the daffodils are in bloom and the trees are budding nicely.  I usually enjoy a burst of spring energy with this season but this year I'm laying low with an MS relapse at present.  The prednisone is helping to bring me back to baseline but I hope I can manage to get there without "ripping someone's head off"!  Ernest has been dodging me well.  He knows the drill!  <grin>

We had a really great time last weekend out near Montreal.  His sister Cecile and her husband Paul celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary by renewing their vows.  It was a beautiful church service complete with a pretty little ring-bearer in a white flowing gown.  Cecile was quite a sight in her white, hand-crafted wedding gown trimmed with ruffles, lace and beading.  Paul was beaming as he laid eyes on her and the hankie was right at hand.  What an inspiration!  50 years of love and friendship.  We should all be so blessed.  

To those of you who subscribed to my newsletter just recently:  Welcome to my readership!  I truly appreciate your interest.

Till next time, take care and God bless.  

~~ Trish :-)

trish@changingpaces.com ~~ 905-967-3014 ~~ www.ChangingPaces.com 

FEATURE ARTICLE

POWERFUL STRATEGIES FOR MAXIMIZING REMISSION

Webster’s dictionary describes remission as a “lessoning of symptoms”.  For those of us with a chronic health condition, remission may be described as a state that brings a feeling of “normalcy”.  What is “normal” anyway?  It’s one of those words that means something different for each one of us. 

For many, being in remission means that we’re not currently affected by the “acuteness” of our condition.  We may still experience fatigue or brain-fog from time to time or the symptoms of residual damage from previous attacks but for the most part, life is good, considering. 

Here are some tell-tale signs that your condition may be in or going into a remission:

  • You have more mental clarity; words come easier.
  • You experience less pain than is “normal”.
  • Your energy is increased and your mood is light.
  • Stress doesn’t seem to ”knock the wind” out of you.
  • It’s been months since you felt “at your worst”.
  • Daily symptoms are less obvious and more transient.

Here are some strategies you can use to maximize your body’s ability to maintain remission or perhaps even alleviate an attack or relapse:

  • Manage your energy well; get lots of rest; take naps if you can.
  • Exercise at least 3 times per week; exercise relieves stress and improves your general well being.
  • Eat well; eat regularly, gets lots of protein, whole grains and fiber; limit refined sugar, caffeine, alcohol and saturated and trans fats.
  • Keep stress to a minimum; what you can’t control, limit your exposure to.
  • Tap into your support system; connect with friends, keep in touch with people who don’t “drain you”.
  • Explore as many self-care routines as you can; ie:  massage, manicure, hair care, luxurious baths, reading for pleasure, healing arts, chiropractic, other wellness practices, etc,
  • Use products that help minimize your daily symptoms; ie: wrist straps with hot pads for arthritic-type conditions, cooling bandanas for MS or other neurological conditions that don’t like heat, scooters for mobility and energy conservation, etc.
  • Meditation, prayer or other spiritual practices that keep you grounded and protected from the mental ups and downs of life.

In the beginning with our illness, it seems as though remissions and attacks are totally unpredictable and beyond our control.  With experience and a deeper sense of self-awareness however we learn that in spite of having an “incurable” condition, we do have a great deal of control over our health; especially over our general well being and our mental health.

FEEDBACK FORUM

"Coaching has made a huge impact.  I feel much more focused in my life. I am so much more aware of the choices I make and of how much I am accomplishing, even when it seems to me that I am spinning my wheels. I’ve learned to look at every problem and conflict as a possibility for growth and change. I enjoyed having someone to talk to and to put things that may seem overwhelming into perspective as well as having someone to offer an outside view and qualified suggestions for change. It is also so helpful to have someone to be accountable to. I've been totally happy with the experience."

Tamara Ward is a Website Designer (www.wildbutterfly.net), Singer and Theatrical Producer who lives successfully with Attention Deficit Disorder (ADD)

CHUCKLES TO LIGHTEN YOUR DAY

THE WASH CLOTH

Mary-Jane was due for an appointment with the gynecologist later in the week.

Early one morning, she received a call from the doctor's office to tell her that she'd been rescheduled for that morning at 9:30 am.  

She had only just packed everyone off to work and school, and it was already around 8:45 am.  The trip to his office took about 35 minutes, so she didn't have time to spare.

As most women do, she liked to take a little extra effort over hygiene when making such visits, but this time she wasn't going to be able to make the full effort.

So, Mary-Jane rushed upstairs, threw off her pajamas, wet the washcloth that was sitting next to the sink, and gave herself a quick wash in "that area" to make sure she was at least presentable.

She threw the washcloth in the clothes basket, donned some clothes, hopped into the car and raced to her appointment.

She was in the waiting room for only a few minutes when she was called in.  Knowing the procedure well, she hopped up on the table, looked over at the other side of the room and pretended she was in Paris or some other place a million miles away.

Mary-Jane was a little surprised when the doctor said "My, we have made an extra effort this morning, haven't we?"

Feeling a little uncomfortable, She didn't respond.

After the appointment, she heaved a sigh of relief and went home.

The rest of the day was normal... some shopping, cleaning, cooking, etc.

After school when her 6 year old daughter was playing, she called out from the bathroom, "Mommy, where's my washcloth?"

Mary-Jane told her to get another one from the cupboard.

Her daughter replied, "No, I need the one that was here by the sink, it had all my glitter and sparkles saved inside it."

FR~EE RESOURCES

 
TeleSupport Group

Support for People with a Chronic Health Condition

(membership is a $10 per month value – yours FREE)

Held the 1st Thurs of every month 7:00 to 8:00 pm (Eastern)

What's a TeleSupport Group?

Glad you asked that!  It's like an in-person support group meeting in that there is a facilitator (me) and there'll be participants (yes, hopefully you) and we'll be getting together to share the challenges and successes we've experienced living with a chronic health condition.  The differences are that you don’t have to leave your house, you don’t have to drive to some distant location and you don’t even have to get dressed! 

How do I join?

If you want to join our TeleSupport Group, simply email me with your first name only or call me at 905-967-3014 and I’ll give you the bridgeline number to call to join us.  I hope you can.  This is a wonderful opportunity for fellowship and support that you'll be able to experience from the comfort of your own home.  Contact me today to get the details on our next meeting!

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TeleClass

Essential Elements of Living Well with Chronic Illness

A multi-part series - content changes every other month

(this event is a $30 per month value – yours FREE)

Held the 2nd Thurs of every month 7:00 to 8:00 pm (Eastern)

Are you ready to break free of the bindings that are holding you back from discovering your own personal level of optimal health?  We all have one - no matter what the condition is that ails us. I challenge you to want to discover yours!  

Class Description:

Over the course of one hour we'll explore 3 great strategies that you can incorporate into your life right away that will help you live well with chronic illness.  The key messages that you'll take away with you will include the ABC's for finally taking control.  Class notes will be provided by email following the session.

How do I register for the class?

Call me today at 905-967-3014 or email me, provide me with your first name only and I’ll provide you with the bridgeline to join us for the next class.  I hope you can be with us for this interactive event. Contact me today - you'll be glad you did!

WORDS TO CONSIDER

“Imagination is more important than knowledge”                                                – Albert Einstein

“Even if you’re on the right track, you’ll get run over if you just sit there.”                – Will Rogers

"Courage is not the lack of fear. It is acting in spite of it."                                        – Mark Twain

ABOUT TRISH

Trish Robichaud is a Maximum Life Coach living with multiple sclerosis and major depression.  She's grateful to have been blessed with a God-given, instinctive ability for seeing assets in people and then reflecting those assets back to them. This enables her clients to confidently reach for and unleash their full potential.  

She facilitates TeleClasses and a monthly TeleSupport Group at no charge to participants as well as publishes a free monthly electronic newsletter.  Her background is in business with training in supportive counseling and life skills facilitation.  

Together with her experience advocating for people with disabilities, this makes her ideally suited to coaching others through their life and vocational transitions. She can be found on the web at www.ChangingPaces.com. 

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