Inspiring and empowering people to maximize their quality of life in spite of a chronic health condition or a disability

STEPS TO CHANGE

 Issue # 17                                                                                                                  

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TRAVELS WITH TRISH

POST-DIAGNOSIS SUPPORT

FEATURE ARTICLE    Fibromyalgia, Tools for Survival 

FEEDBACK FORUM

CHUCKLES TO LIGHTEN YOUR DAY

FR~EE RESOURCES

WORDS TO CONSIDER

ABOUT THE EDITOR

 

A chronic health condition can be a catalyst for personal growth and self-discovery. 

Are you ready to break free of the bindings that are holding you back from discovering your own personal level of optimal health?

 We all have one – no matter what the condition is that ails us.  

We challenge you to want to discover yours!

We take people from an overwhelmed existence to a comfortably paced lifestyle. 

Are you ready for that journey?

We're ready to help!  Email us NOW!

Contact us today for a fr~ee sample coaching session and get started on living your maximum life.

TRAVELS WITH TRISH

Hey there!  Happy Spring!  It's been far too long, eh?

I hope you don't mind but I think this newsletter is evolving into a quarterly publication.  Not my optimum choice but perhaps the healthiest choice for me to make, given my energy resources and the continual expansion of Changing Paces business activities.

On that note, I'd like to introduce you to the newest member of the Changing Paces team...

ROSE YOUNG, Recovery Life Skills Coach.  Rose will be a fellow coach, contributing to the Changing Paces quest to bring optimum health & quality of life to those who come to us for support.

Rose brings with her 22 years of experience coaching in the addictions field, supporting those with the disease of addiction as well as those who live with an addict.   She's a cancer survivor as well as a victorious warrior in the battle against the injustices of the corporate world faced by people with disabilities.

Living with chronic pain and fibromyalgia, Rose has conquered the lifestyle modifications and stress management necessary to optimize her health.  To read more about Rose click here, or click here to email her directly.  She welcomes the opportunity to talk with you about your challenges.

WELCOME ABOARD Rose!

To those of you who subscribed to our newsletter just recently:  Welcome to our readership!  We truly appreciate your interest.  Feel free to forward our newsletters to anyone who you think may benefit from them.  

Till next time, take care and God bless.  

~~ Trish :-)

trish@changingpaces.com ~~ 905-967-3014 ~~ www.ChangingPaces.com  

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POST-DIAGNOSIS SUPPORT

 

AFTER THE DIAGNOSIS: WHAT'S NEXT?

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·                     Learn about both unique and similar perspectives to your own, 

·                     Decide how you can make the transition from denial to acceptance,

·                     Be invited to approach life in a way that will enable you to transform your outlook from uncertainty to hope,

·                     Create a healthy emotional foundation so that you can shift from reactive to proactive living,

·                     Learn tried and true strategies to be empowered to take control of your life.

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FEATURE ARTICLE

FIBROMYALGIA, TOOLS FOR SURVIVAL

By Kristy Haugen

Fibromyalgia is a chronic condition categorized as a form of arthritis. Fibromyalgia is characterized by widespread pain in the muscles, ligaments, and tendons. Common symptoms of fibromyalgia include fatigue, headaches, painful menstrual periods, tingling or numbness in the hands and feet, morning stiffness, multiple tender points on the body, and sleep difficulty. Common sites of pain include the back, shoulders, neck, pelvic girdle, and hands but any body part may be affected.

The cause of fibromyalgia is not known. However, many factors can contribute to fibromyalgia. Researchers believe that disturbances in sleep patterns may be a cause of fibromyalgia rather than a symptom. Viral or bacterial infections may also be a trigger. Injury or trauma that affects the central nervous system may be a cause of fibromyalgia. An imbalance in neurotransmitters in the brain may also be a cause of fibromyalgia. Serotonin is one such neurotransmitter that researchers believe is linked to cause fibromyalgia along with depression, migraines, and gastrointestinal distress. Abnormalities in the autonomic nervous system may be a cause of fibromyalgia. Fibromyalgia may also be caused by changes in muscle metabolism such as deconditioning and decreased blood flow.

Fibromyalgia affects people in early and middle adulthood but can affect children as well. Those affected by rheumatoid arthritis, lupus, or ankylosing spondylitis are more likely to develop fibromyalgia. A family history of fibromyalgia also increases the chance of developing this disorder. Those with sleep disorders such as restless legs syndrome or sleep apnea have an increased risk of developing fibromyalgia.

Fibromyalgia is not a progressive or life threatening disease. The symptoms of fibromyalgia vary in intensity. There are many treatments that can improve the symptoms of fibromyalgia.

Certain medications can treat the pain involved with fibromyalgia. Certain analgesics used to treat fibromyalgia include: acetaminophen, NSAID’s (non-steroidal anti-inflammatory drugs), and Ultram (Tramadol). These medications may be used in conjunction with each other for better pain relief. However, Ultram must be prescribed by a physician while NSAID’s (ibuprofen, naproxen, aspirin) and acetaminophen (Tylenol) are available over the counter.

Antidepressants may be prescribed by your doctor to treat fibromyalgia. Such antidepressant medications that may be prescribed include: Pamelor, Elavil, Doxepin, Prozac, Paxil, and Zoloft. These medications may be prescribed in conjunction with each other. These medications treat serotonin levels in the brain and may also promote sleep.

Those affected with muscle pain and spasms may need to take a muscle relaxant such as Flexeril at bedtime. Your doctor may also prescribe a benzodiazepine to promote sleep and help relax muscles. Certain sleep medications such as Ambien are classified as a benzodiazepine. However, these medications are not recommended for long term use because of the increased risk of dependence.

Your doctor may help you to create a unique treatment program involving cognitive-behavioral therapy and an interdisciplinary program. Cognitive-behavioral therapy involves teaching patients to deal with stressful situations. Interdisciplinary treatment programs may involve relaxation techniques, biofeedback, and education regarding chronic pain.

Self care is also very important in treating fibromyalgia. Self care includes reducing stress, achieving adequate sleep, exercising regularly, and eating a healthy diet. There are also alternative therapies that might help alleviate the stress and pain associated with fibromyalgia. These therapies include chiropractic care, massage therapy, meditation, yoga, acupressure, physical therapy, light aerobics, aromatherapy, herbs, nutritional supplements, myofascial release therapy, application of heat/cold, and acupuncture.

Visiting a doctor of osteopathy may be beneficial for treating fibromyalgia. Doctors of osteopathy are licensed to perform the same therapies and procedures as medical doctors but are also taught the use of manipulation to address joint and spinal problems. A doctor of osteopathy may be more apt to see the subtle signs of fibromyalgia.

There is no cure for fibromyalgia yet, but hope is on the horizon. The fibromyalgia patient has many resources to help deal with this disorder such as support groups, organizations, and medical professionals to help improve your quality of life. Fibromyalgia is not life threatening and treatments tend to improve the severity of the symptoms over time. There are many tools that the fibromyalgia sufferer can use to become a fibromyalgia survivor!

Copyright 2006 Kristy Haugen

About The Author
Kristy Haugen is a mother and an experienced nurse. She also has a bachelor degree in Biology and Chemistry. She writes to inform consumers about nutrition and health topics. Learn more about pain relief and arthritis at
http://painreliefarticles.vitaminmaniac.com. Learn more about vitamins and your health at http://blog.vitaminmaniac.com.

Please note that this article is provided for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical consultation. You should always check with your own physician on issues related to your health.

FEEDBACK FORUM

"It is nice to know that you share in my joys, my frustrations, my wins and my overall future success. The accountability mixed in with the collaboration between a client and coach is invaluable."

"Before you started coaching me, I felt that I was up against a brick wall that I couldn’t go through or over. My life was stagnant and I just couldn’t get myself motivated to do anything. I had been diagnosed with depression and anxiety attacks and had lost all confidence in myself.

You motivated me to extend myself, and encouraged me to do things and commit myself to improve my life. I think everyone should have a coach. You helped give my life clarity and substance and helped me grow into someone I actually like. I owe you so much!

I can't thank you enough for the help and encouragement you have given me. My world has really turned out so much better than I could ever imagine. I actually say I feel really happy.

Thank you for being there Trish - you are a great blessing. I know you coming into my life was Devine intervention. God Bless."

SM is a freelance writer living with anxiety and depression.

CHUCKLES TO LIGHTEN YOUR DAY

TRY "THE WAX"

All hair removal methods have tricked us with their promises of easy, painless removal. The epilady, scissors, razors, Nair and now....  
The Wax!!

My night began as any other normal weekday night. Come home; fix dinner; played with the kids. I then had the thought that would ring painfully in my mind for the next few hours; "Maybe I should pull the wax out of the medicine cabinet?"

So I headed to the site of my demise; the bathroom. It was one of those cold wax kits. No melting a clump of hot wax, you just rub the strips together in your hands. When they get warm you peel them apart and press one to your leg (or wherever else) and hair comes right off!

No mess, no fuss. How hard can it be? I mean, I'm no girly, girl, but I am mechanically inclined enough that I can figure it out. *YA THINK!!!*

So I pull one of the thin strips out. It's two strips facing each other, stuck together. Instead of rubbing them together, I get out the hair dryer and heat it to 1000 degrees. Cold wax my rear end (Oh, how this phrase haunts me!). I lay the strip across my thigh. Hold the skin around it tight and pull.

OK... So it wasn't the best feeling, but it wasn't too bad. I can do this!!! Hair removal no longer eludes me!! I am She-Ra, fighter of all wayward body hair and smooth skin extraordinaire!!

With my next wax strip, I move "north". After checking on the kids, I sneak back into the bathroom for the ultimate hair fighting championship. I drop my panties and place one foot on the toilet.  Using the same procedure, I apply the wax strip across the right side of the bikini line, covering the right half of my vagina and stretching down to the inside of my butt cheek (Yes, it was a long strip). I inhale deeply and brace myself....

RRRRIIIIIIPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!

I'm Blind!!!!! Blinded from pain!!!!!!... OH MY GOD!!!!!!!!!!!

Vision returning, I notice that I've only managed to pull off half of the strip. S**T!! Another deep breath and RRIIPP... Everything is swirling and spotted. Do I hear crashing drums????? OK, back to normal. I want to see my trophy - A wax covered strip with my hairy pelt that has caused me so much pain, sticking to it. I want to revel in the glory that is my triumph over body hair. I hold up the strip! There's no hair on it!

Where is the hair?? WHERE IS THE WAX? Slowly I ease my head down, foot still perched on the toilet. I see the hair... The hair that should be on the strip. I touch. I am touching wax. S**T!!! I run my fingers over the most sensitive part of my body, which is now covered in cold wax and matted hair.

Then I make the next BIG mistake…  Remember, my foot is still propped up on the toilet. I know I need to do something, so I put my foot down. DAMN!!! I hear the slamming of the cell door.

Vagina? Sealed shut! Butt?? Sealed shut!!! I penguin walk around the bathroom, trying to figure out what to do and think to myself, "Please don't let me get the urge to poop. My head may pop off."

Hot water!! Hot water melts wax!! I'll run the hottest water I can stand into the bathtub, get in, immerse the wax covered bits and the wax should melt and I can gently wipe it off, right??

*WRONG!!!!*

I get in the tub - The water is slightly hotter than that used to torture prisoners of war or sterilize surgical equipment - I sit.  Now, the only thing worse than having your nether businesses glued together is having them glued together and then glued to the bottom of the tub.

In scalding hot water!! Which, by the way, doesn't melt cold wax.  So, now I'm stuck to the bottom of the tub!!! God bless the man who convinced me I should have a phone in the bathroom!!! I call my friend, thinking surely she's waxed before and has some secret of how to get me undone. It's a very good conversation starter, "So my butt and who-ha are stuck to the bottom of the tub!" There is a slight pause. She doesn't have a secret trick, but does try to hide the laughter from me.

She wants to know exactly where the wax is located on my bottom, "Are we talking cheeks or hole or what?"   She's laughing out loud by now... I can hear her. I give her the rundown and she suggests I call the number on the side of the box. YEAH!!!

Right!!!!!! I would be the joke of someone else's night. While we go through various solutions, I resort to scraping the wax off with a razor. Nothing feels better then to have your girlie goodies covered in hot wax, glued shut, stuck to the tub in super hot water, and then dry shaving the sticky wax off!!!

By now, the brain is not working, dignity has taken a major knock and I slip into glazed donut land. My friend is still talking with me and my hand reaches towards the saving grace... The lotion they give you to remove the excess wax. What do I really have to lose at this point?

I rub some on and OH MY GOD!!!!! The scream probably woke the kids, scared the dickens out of my friend, but I really don't care!!

“IT WORKS!! IT WORKS!!" I get a hearty congratulation from my friend and she hangs up. I successfully remove the remainder of the wax and then notice, to my grief and despair... THE HAIR IS STILL THERE... ALL OF IT!!!!!!!!!!! So, I shaved it off. Heck, I'm numb at this point.

Next week I'm going to try hair colour...  

FR~EE RESOURCES

 

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Their goal is to help you and your family find the best possible solutions for living better, longer and more productive lives with chronic illness.

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WORDS TO CONSIDER

"We become what we repeatedly do."

-- Aristotle

"You are what you think about all day long."

-- Dr. Robert Schuller

"Change your thoughts and you change your world."

-- Norman Vincent Peale

"The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind!"

-- William James

ABOUT THE EDITOR

Trish Robichaud is a Maximum Life Coach who lives with major depression and multiple sclerosis.  Her passion is helping people to maximize their quality of life in spite of a chronic health condition or a disability.  Through the process of coaching, she takes her clients from an overwhelmed existence to a comfortably-paced lifestyle.  

Trish facilitates TeleClasses and a monthly TeleSupport Group at no charge to participants as well as publishes a free monthly electronic newsletter.  Her services also include Disability Awareness Coaching for organizations through interactive experiential workshops.  

Her background is in business with training and extensive experience in support counseling and life skills facilitation.  Together with her vast experience advocating for people with disabilities, her success with her own personal journey makes her ideally suited to coaching others through their life, health and vocational transitions. She can be found on the web at www.ChangingPaces.com

Copyright © 2003-2006 Trish Robichaud, All rights reserved

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